The following is an exert from an article by Angela Cara Pancrazio
Meet Donna Rose, a former jock who could bench press 300 pounds, who sometimes feels invisible as a woman.
When David Rosen became Donna Rose, the people in charge of the human resources department at her company didn’t know what to think. Nor did her colleagues. Lots has changed since then.
Actress Calpernia Addams and Donna Rose at Denver Pride 2008
Corporations across the country are working to extend workplace protections to transgender employees, and Donna often shares her personal story to help managers understand the new challenges that many know nothing about. Transgender workers are becoming more visible at all employment levels. While companies don’t keep such statistics, it is estimated that 1,000 people seek sexual-reassignment surgery every year and as many as 40,000 postoperative transsexuals are living in the United States. Experts believe there are at least three to five times as many transsexuals who don’t have surgery.
In a hot pink floral dress, Donna Rose is a commanding presence as she stands in front of a room filled with dozens of managers and human-resources leaders with Eastman Kodak Co. She has her laptop queued up, filled with pictures that illustrate the message she has been asked to deliver to the Fortune 500 company.
When Donna was growing up as David, or Dave as everyone called him, inside she wasn’t sure what she was. She thought there was no one else like her. It was a lonely existence, trying to find others like herself who couldn’t understand what was going on inside. There were no resources. By personalizing her story to audiences across the country, she is doing for others what would have helped her decades ago.
Donna was born David Guy Rosen on Feb. 22, 1959. The first son of a theoretical biophysicist and a nurse, David never failed to meet expectations. As a child and then a teenager, he excelled as an athlete.
He later started a career in the booming high-tech industry and married. A son soon followed.
Then, 40 years after living his life as a man, David decided he could no longer ignore the gender issues that he had done his best to hide and repress since his youth. He began to embark upon the path that would lead him to Donna, his true self.
Donna began by bearing witness on her own life. She captured it all in her journal, which was eventually published as a memoir, Wrapped in Blue. Numerous speaking engagements followed the publication of the book, which she inscribed with one of her favorite quotations from the French Nobel Prize author Andre Gide:
“It is better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not.” Read the rest of this entry »
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