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You’re Going To Spend Half Your Life Looking For Love

April 30th, 2007 by Babe

I picked up on an interesting article outlining that between the ages of 18 and 59, those surveyed cohabited an average of nearly four years and were married about 18. The rest of the time — an average of about 19 years — they were dating or alone, with no steady companion. Basically you’re single, dating and looking for love

Men were more likely than women to have more than one sexual partner. Among those surveyed, 20 percent of men and 6 percent of women said they’d had sex with at least one other person during their most recent relationship.

The survey also found that Many gay men focused largely on transactional relationships, while lesbians were far more interested in relational connections.

Full Article at International Dating Singles

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April’s Short & Sweet News

April 30th, 2007 by Babe

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WASHINGTON — After more than a decade of government inaction, gay-rights proponents in Congress have gotten several major bills moving through the Democratic-controlled chambers, a development that could result in the greatest expansion of federal protections for gays and lesbians in US history.
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April 26th – Iowa

A law banning discrimination against LGBTs in the workplace, housing and public facilities goes to the Chet Culver, governor of Iowa, who has vowed to sign it.

The 59-37 vote was largely along partisan lines, nine Republicans broke caucus to support the rights bill.

The version in the House, Iowa’s more conservative chamber, somewhat weakens its language on transgender protections, striking “appearance, expression, or behavior” from its wording on gender identity. The changed language on transgendered people should not lessen their protection. It was made, she said, to soothe lawmakers worried about cross-dressing or sudden gender transitions in schools.

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Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual And Transgender Health Issues Getting Short Shrift At U.S. Schools Of Public Health

Aside from HIV/AIDS, health issues affecting the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender population are not likely to show up in research and lesson plans offered at schools of public health across the nation. Researchers mailed questionnaires to 184 department and division heads at 35 of the country’s schools of public health.

The majority of schools include sexual orientation in their non-discrimination policy. Of the 102 respondents, 41 percent reported having at least one faculty member who was conducting research on an issue related to lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender health – yet the majority of the research was on HIV/AIDS.

In addition, fewer than 10 percent of the departments had offered a course covering lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender health topics in the previous two years.

The importance of offering such courses and providing research are highlighted by previous studies identifying that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people are at increased risk for some health problems, such as substance use and being victims of violence. They also face “unique barriers to accessing and utilizing appropriate health services,” the study’s authors said. “Consequently, factors associated with sexual orientation and gender identity are increasingly recognized as important to consider in public health practice and research.” In recognition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender health disparities, official American Public Health Association policy urges educational institutions to support efforts to improve the health of this population.

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Yale Daily News Mon, 02 Apr 2007 11:07 PM PDT
The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Cooperative at Yale is planning a ?day of silence? for April 18 to highlight the experiences of queer students and others who are forced to hide their sexuality.

Members of the Co-op, as well as straight students allied with their cause, will abstain from speech the entire day and wear conspicuous symbols on their clothing meant to bring attention to their silence, Co-op coordinator Anna Wipfler ’09 said. The day is intended to increase awareness among Yalies of the difficulties faced by gays and lesbians who do not feel comfortable speaking about their experiences, she said.

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Planet Out via Yahoo! News Mon, 02 Apr 2007 5:10 PM PDT
Rashawn Brazell. Sakia Gunn. J.R. Warren — victims of three of the country’s most brutal killings of gay men and lesbians in recent years. Yet their deaths received little attention and their names somehow don’t evoke the intense resonance that followed the 1998 killing of Matthew Shepard, a gay man from Wyoming.

But a documentary maker, an artist and an Ivy League doctoral candidate hope to change that.

Separately, the three — all strangers to the victims — have created a scholarship fund for college-bound students, an independent documentary, and an art exhibit to not only highlight the killings but also reignite larger discussions about homophobia and bias crimes.

See Our Full Article…
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Disney’s Theme Weddings Come True for Gay Couples
Washington Post Fri, 06 Apr 2007 8:11 PM PDT

Same-sex weddings are coming out at Disneyland. Walt Disney Co. said yesterday that gay couples can buy the company’s high-end Fairy Tale Wedding package that allows them to exchange vows at Disney’s theme parks and aboard its cruise ships, starting about $4,000 per wedding.

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Transgender Navy vet protests war in US Congress

When former CIA operative Valerie Plame testified at a congressional hearing bristling with TV cameras, Midge Potts was right there, a distracting figure in a shocking pink shirt emblazoned with “Impeach Bush Now.”

She’s been ejected, arrested and detained for protests demanding U.S. troops leave Iraq, but that hasn’t deterred the Gulf War veteran, former Republican congressional candidate and transgender woman.

“We shouldn’t be afraid to vocalize our opinion to our elected leaders,” said Potts, one of several members of the Code Pink anti-war group who frequently show up for congressional hearings and debates on Iraq.

Now she and the group are aggressively targeting Hillary Rodham Clinton, Barack Obama and other presidential contenders they believe have failed to push for the immediate withdrawal of U.S. forces from Iraq.

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Cleveland opens first gay health clinic in Ohio
WKYC Cleveland Sun, 08 Apr 2007 10:01 AM PDT
Cleveland opens first gay health clinic in Ohio
The Pride Clinic, which is dedicated to serving the gay, lesbian and transgender community, had two patients on its opening day last week.

Doctor Douglas Van Auken is medical director at McCafferty Health Center, which houses the clinic. He says it’s important for people to feel accepted at their doctor’s so that they can answer questions honestly and help doctors treat them.

The clinic is currently open only on Wednesdays and offers screenings for sexually transmitted diseases, hypertension, diabetes and depression. It also has an onsite social worker and resources for family planning.

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Transgender teen accuses school of discrimination

April 29th, 2007 by Babe

Compliments of the Dallas News
Rodney Evans, a 15-year-old sophomore at Eastern Hills High School in Fort Worth, said officials told him he was being suspended Thursday for disrupting school with foul language, but he contends the real reason was because he is a transgender male who is a cross dresser.

“When I try and do the whole cross dressing thing, everything just blows up in my face,” he said Friday. “I can’t be who I am. They basically stripped me of who I am.”

A school district spokeswoman declined to comment on the specifics of the incident but said the suspension had nothing to do with clothing.

“This is a disciplinary matter involving a student, and rules concerning confidentiality prohibit us from talking about this,” Barbara Griffith said.

On any given day, Rodney may wear women’s jeans, women’s flats, nail polish, eye shadow, mascara and blush. He carries a purse. Sometimes he wears a wig or breast pads. Rodney said he has been dressing like this since freshman year.

It hasn’t been easy. In the past two years, he said, he has received numerous school infractions and has been suspended more times than he can remember.

Rodney said he was escorted Thursday to the office of the assistant principal, who told him to remove his wig and high heels because he was being disruptive. When Rodney refused, he was told to go into detention for the remainder of the day. A second refusal led to a threat of a three-day suspension.

Upset, Rodney said, he went into the hallway and began crying. A friend came by, and Rodney said he had an outburst. Rodney said police officers then ticketed him for using profane language.

“I got myself suspended in a way,” he said.

Rodney said he’s never gotten a ticket before but is expected to show up at municipal court by early May and possibly face a fine or community service.

He returns to school Wednesday.

Rodney and his mom, Lenora Felipe, said school district officials were practising a double standard. Female students dress like males all the time, wearing boxers, tennis shoes, wallet chains and watches, Rodney said.

“And they have nothing to say to them at all,” he said.

Ms. Felipe said she met previously with school officials when they expressed concerns about Rodney’s use of the restroom and how it might appear to visitors who did not realize he was a young man.

“My son on a daily basis looks like a girl regardless of whether he is dressed up or not,” Ms. Felipe said.

“People keep on saying he’s not being normal. Yes, he is,” she said. “That’s his life.”

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Transgender Student Runs for Prom King

April 23rd, 2007 by Babe

Fresno……….When school officials announce the name of the Fresno High School prom king on Saturday, Cinthia Covarrubias will be wearing a tux just like the six boys vying for the honor.

Administrators agreed to reverse a district protocol this week that limited males to compete for the title after Covarrubias was nominated by her classmates.

Gay youth advocates called it a landmark victory for campus gender expression and said they believe it’s the first time in the U.S. that an openly transgender student has run for prom royalty.

Covarrubias, who wears black-and-white Vans, baggy shorts and close-cropped brown hair, sometimes identifies herself as Tony. Her date, a close female friend, plans to wear a black dress and red corsage to the prom at an outdoor reception hall surrounded by man-made waterfalls.

On Wednesday, officials at the school of 2,700 students shifted course, saying the district’s lawyers had recommended adding Covarrubias’ name to the ballot to comply with a 2000 state law protecting students’ ability to express their gender identity on campus.

“We always want to do the right thing by our students,” Vice Principal Sheila Uriarte said. “This is why we came to this decision.”

A native of Jalisco, Mexico, Covarrubias said she has bucked rigid expectations of how a girl in her culture should behave. Explaining the meaning of terms like “queer” and “transgender” to her parents and eight siblings has at times been painful, she said.

She has no current plans, however, to permanently alter her gender through hormones or surgery.

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No Balls For Transgendered Soft Ball Player

April 21st, 2007 by Babe

California – A transgendered person cannot play coed softball in the Chico Area Recreation and Park District League.

Tedra Thomsen, 38, who wants to play softball as a woman, appeared before the CARD board Thursday night asking members to change their minds. Instead, the board voted unanimously to adopt a new policy that essentially follows International Olympic Committee Guidelines.

The guidelines state that a transgendered person who has not undergone surgical and hormonal procedures to change their sex, cannot play as a woman.

Thomsen says “this is not an international competition going for medals or awards. It should be different rules at this level than at the international level.” Thomsen will not appeal the decision and has not plans for a lawsuit.

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